(semi-closeted) transman (pre-t)
25 years young.
male pronouns please (he/him/his)
trying to get my life back on track.
I am a hopeless romantic.
musical theatre junkie.
I believe in equality for ALL.
I have some feminist views.
i am a liberal.
this blog is a mess of randomness.
I am not doing well.
My coming out letter to my mom is looking more and more like a suicide note.
I’m afraid that might be what it is.
your life is worth living even if you’re “not doing anything”
your life is worth living even if you are “letting life pass you by”
your life is worth living even if you stay in bed all day every day watching netflix
you don’t have to be big, beloved, important, beautiful, wealthy or famous
there is dignity in just being
it is ok to be
you merely have to be
I really needed these words.
I like how sweden just decided one day that gender is fucking bullshit so they got a gender neutral pronoun and stopped separating boy clothes and girl clothes and have pictures of spiderman pushing a baby stroller in a toy magazine why isn’t every country like sweden
you push that stroller sassy spiderman!
you fight those bad guys girlfriend!
you style that hair lil’ dude!
and in that moment, i swear we all wanted to be swedish.
You are not allowed to say
- He’s a boy, but
- He’s not actually a boy
- He’s actually transgender
- He doesn’t have the right “parts”
- He was born a girl
- He used to be a girl
You are definitely not allowed to say
- and “Hers”
When I have specifically told you to use
- and “His”
If you don’t know don’t assume; ask.
If you do know, don’t out.
The only circumstance when it’s okay for you to out me is if I say it is okay.